Greeting Awesome People,
Let’s Begin with an
exercise, take a deep breath, close your eyes and say “I AM THE BEST” for 10
times slowly within yourself feeling that you are the best. 1, 2, 3… 10.
How do you feel?
Like full of
energy, you can achieve anything. Oh come on that smile on your face says a
lot.
Now let’s reverse
the situation, take a deep breath, close your eyes and say “I AM A LOOSER” for
10 times. I know you must be shocked about what I am saying, but to understand
the power of the words we need to perform the both situation.
Let’s begin 10
times just you did for “ I AM THE BEST ”. Let’s Start. 1, 2, 3… 10.
How was it? How are
you feeling now?
The very first
person who is listening to the words is YOU. Hence you can feel the influence
of the words in your daily life whether it is encouraging or discouraging. Now
after you felt the power of the words, understand why it is so powerful for the
self being and other beings.
The words which we
choose in our daily life or words which we choose to support our thoughts
slowly after continuous utter it become our beliefs. And Our beliefs make our Reality.
This is how it
works.
THOUGHTS supported by →→WORDS →→BELIEFS →→ACTIONS→→RESULTS.
Suppose Ram has a THOUGHT that he is not good at Math.
Now what will he do, he will support
that THOUGHT with some WORDS. Now it’s his choice/decision of
words that will make what he wants to be. Suppose he chooses the negative words,
generally we all do. Now he started to support his THOUGHTS through negative WORDS,
whenever he is alone he will do self-talk that,
“ I am not good at Math”
“ I can’t score
good marks in Math”
“ I will fail in
Math Exam”
And he will repeat these
words when he will meet his friends and know people, turning it to one of his
biggest BELIEFS. Now with the help
of the WORDS Ram has created a BELIEF that Math is not his cup of tea
and slowly it’s got embedded in his subconscious mind. Now how it changes into ACTIONS. Whenever he will sit for study
his BELIEF will tell him that Math is not for you, you are weak in this, there
is no point in studying Math, hence he will pick other subject and will start
reading it. Now RESULTS will come as
expected by Ram , he scored very less mark.
This is how Ram
created that thought supported by Words into a reality.
What if Ram had
chosen some positive words like,
“ I will read Math
daily for 1 hours extra”
“ I will ask my
teacher how can I improve”
“ I can get good marks
I will study it more”
This words would
have changed his reality.
This is what we do
to ourselves we do negative self-talk and we talk same with our friends and
family and the result we all know, and we say “I knew it gonna happen, I was thinking of it”. If we know its
gonna happen (our words create our reality) then why not we do the other
way, the positive self-talk and taking to friends and family about it in
positive way using positive words.
Now replace the
“Math Subject” in above story with your own thoughts that comes to you and
check the words used by you to support them and recall the results.
Now after
understanding how powerful are the words you need to be more caution about
choosing the words that support your thoughts.
Taking this to a Step Further
We have understood
how our words selection can shape our reality, how these words become beliefs
and slowly –slowly gets embedded in our sub-conscious mind which leads to
reality.
Now think if these
words can impact on ourselves so much how would it impact on other people
around us.
Everyone has a
power of words with the help of which we can make see things to other people can’t
see even for themselves. Your words spoken can impact somebody so much that it
can flourish someone’s life or can easily ruin someone life. Choice is yours
either you choose a negative word for others and pull them down or you can
choose right positive words so that other person can flourish in their life.
Suppose in your Office
you are working with your juniors and somehow one of them has made some mistake
in the task which you delegated to him/her. Now here can be 2 scenarios:
Scenario 1:
You will call him/her
and start shouting that “How can you make such a mistake?”, “You don’t know
anything!”, and many more stuff, rather you throw all negative words towards
him/her.
Now think what
image that person will make for you and for him/her self. Considering the
example of the RAM about the Math, that person will grow the thought that he/she is an idiot and
can’t do the things properly. After that the words said by you will
continuously get repeated in his/her mind shaping the words of his/her own. And we all know till now that Thought supported with the Words become Beliefs.
This is how powerful the words are , now that person will grow with a very
low confidence and will not be do well in any field.
Scenario 2:
You will call
him/her make the person seated comfortably. Then you can start like “You did a
good job but these are the areas you need to take care of” or “I appreciate
your hard-work but these points you should change and keep in mind”.
Now think what
image that person will make for you and for him/her self. Now that person will
not use any negative words for the thought you have implanted in the mind rather,
he/she will think I need to more careful in these area and she/he will become
better and in return this will benefit you in very own task.
And there is also
one hidden benefit in scenario 2, when
you convey your message in the calm and positive way there are no negative
thought neither in you nor in that person, means positivity everywhere. This
will help you to work with a good positive energy or else you will keep
attracting more negativity that particular day and your day will also be
ruined.
Just Try it.
At last I conclude
that “Every word you speak can impact you and others in many ways beyond our
imaginations. You should choose you words very carefully while doing
self-talking or talking to others. Our words have power to make people see what
are beyond their imaginations and can achieve too. Always use positive words while
doing self-talking or doing public speaking or while conversing with children
use only positive and encouraging words.” ‘Think before you speak’
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