Words:The Powerful Force

Greeting Awesome People,

Let’s Begin with an exercise, take a deep breath, close your eyes and say “I AM THE BEST” for 10 times slowly within yourself feeling that you are the best. 1, 2, 3… 10.

How do you feel?

Like full of energy, you can achieve anything. Oh come on that smile on your face says a lot.

Now let’s reverse the situation, take a deep breath, close your eyes and say “I AM A LOOSER” for 10 times. I know you must be shocked about what I am saying, but to understand the power of the words we need to perform the both situation.

Let’s begin 10 times just you did for “ I AM THE BEST ”. Let’s Start. 1, 2, 3… 10.

How was it? How are you feeling now?

The very first person who is listening to the words is YOU. Hence you can feel the influence of the words in your daily life whether it is encouraging or discouraging. Now after you felt the power of the words, understand why it is so powerful for the self being and other beings.

The words which we choose in our daily life or words which we choose to support our thoughts slowly after continuous utter it become our beliefs. And Our beliefs make our Reality.

This is how it works.

THOUGHTS supported by →→WORDS  →→BELIEFS →→ACTIONS→→RESULTS.

Suppose Ram has a THOUGHT that he is not good at Math. Now what will he do,  he will support that THOUGHT with some WORDS. Now it’s his choice/decision of words that will make what he wants to be. Suppose he chooses the negative words, generally we all do. Now he started to support his THOUGHTS through negative WORDS, whenever he is alone he will do self-talk that,

“ I am not good at  Math”

“ I can’t score good marks in Math”

“ I will fail in Math Exam”

And he will repeat these words when he will meet his friends and know people, turning it to one of his biggest BELIEFS. Now with the help of the WORDS Ram has created a BELIEF that Math is not his cup of tea and slowly it’s got embedded in his subconscious mind. Now how it changes into ACTIONS. Whenever he will sit for study his BELIEF will tell him that Math is not for you, you are weak in this, there is no point in studying Math, hence he will pick other subject and will start reading it. Now RESULTS will come as expected by Ram , he scored very less mark.

This is how Ram created that thought supported by Words into a reality.

What if Ram had chosen some positive words like,

“ I will read Math daily for 1 hours extra”

“ I will ask my teacher how can I improve”

“ I can get good marks I will study it more”

This words would have changed his reality.

This is what we do to ourselves we do negative self-talk and we talk same with our friends and family and the result we all know, and we say “I knew it gonna happen, I was thinking of it”. If we know its gonna happen (our words create our reality) then why not we do the other way, the positive self-talk and taking to friends and family about it in positive way using positive words.

Now replace the “Math Subject” in above story with your own thoughts that comes to you and check the words used by you to support them and recall the results.

Now after understanding how powerful are the words you need to be more caution about choosing the words that support your thoughts.

Taking this to a Step Further

We have understood how our words selection can shape our reality, how these words become beliefs and slowly –slowly gets embedded in our sub-conscious mind which leads to reality.

Now think if these words can impact on ourselves so much how would it impact on other people around us.

Everyone has a power of words with the help of which we can make see things to other people can’t see even for themselves. Your words spoken can impact somebody so much that it can flourish someone’s life or can easily ruin someone life. Choice is yours either you choose a negative word for others and pull them down or you can choose right positive words so that other person can flourish in their life.

Suppose in your Office you are working with your juniors and somehow one of them has made some mistake in the task which you delegated to him/her. Now here can be 2 scenarios:

Scenario 1:

You will call him/her and start shouting that “How can you make such a mistake?”, “You don’t know anything!”, and many more stuff, rather you throw all negative words towards him/her.

Now think what image that person will make for you and for him/her self. Considering the example of the RAM about the Math, that person will grow the thought that he/she is an idiot and can’t do the things properly. After that the words said by you will continuously get repeated in his/her mind shaping the words of his/her own. And we all know till now that Thought supported with the Words become Beliefs. This is how powerful the words are , now that person will grow with a very low confidence and will not be do well in any field.

Scenario 2:

You will call him/her make the person seated comfortably. Then you can start like “You did a good job but these are the areas you need to take care of” or “I appreciate your hard-work but these points you should change and keep in mind”.

Now think what image that person will make for you and for him/her self. Now that person will not use any negative words for the thought you have implanted in the mind rather, he/she will think I need to more careful in these area and she/he will become better and in return this will benefit you in very own task.

And there is also one hidden benefit in scenario 2, when you convey your message in the calm and positive way there are no negative thought neither in you nor in that person, means positivity everywhere. This will help you to work with a good positive energy or else you will keep attracting more negativity that particular day and your day will also be ruined.

Just Try it.

At last I conclude that “Every word you speak can impact you and others in many ways beyond our imaginations. You should choose you words very carefully while doing self-talking or talking to others. Our words have power to make people see what are beyond their imaginations and can achieve too. Always use positive words while doing self-talking or doing public speaking or while conversing with children use only positive and encouraging words.” ‘Think before you speak’

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Vishal Agarwal

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